Ramon José Vallejo V

  • Cuba 1956

  • Father's business 1960

  • First communion 1961

  • MIT 1973

  • Walking Down the Aisle May 2018

  • Lizette's Wedding Day May 2018

  • Costa Rica June 2024



  • Born: 1953 in Bayamo, Oriente, Cuba.
  • Family Lineage: Part of a multigenerational line — the fifth “Ramon José Vallejo” in the family; his son is the sixth.
  • Early Childhood:
    • Lived an upper-middle-class life in Cuba until age 8.
    • Fond memories of family, community festivals, and attending Catholic school.
    • Emigrated to the U.S. in 1962 after Castro’s revolution; family resettled in Tampa, Florida.
    • Experienced drastic lifestyle change — father worked at a gas station, mother at a shrimp-peeling factory — shaping his work ethic and appreciation for hardship.
  • Education & Early Ambition:
    • Describes himself as ambitious, goal-oriented, and a planner.
    • Motivated by his father’s dream for him to attend West Point; after his father’s death from colon cancer when Ramon was 17, he set his own goal to attend a top engineering school.
    • Accepted to MIT, earning a bachelor’s degree in engineering.
    • Later pursued a Master’s in Civil Engineering at Cornell University.
  • Career:
    • Joined Shell Oil Company in 1976 as an engineer, beginning in New Orleans — the city he would ultimately call home.
    • Spent 37½ years at Shell, holding diverse roles: technical engineering, management, HR, and research.
    • Ended his career as a Project Manager for offshore projects in Brazil, traveling frequently to Rio de Janeiro and Monaco.
    • Praises Shell’s ethical culture and employee development; retired with pride and a strong pension.
  • Personal Life:
    • Married to Maria for 47 years; both Cuban immigrants.
    • Together raised three children:
      • Ramon VI – Mechanical Engineer at Dow Chemical.
      • Lizette – Senior Employee and Industrial Relations Advisor at Shell.
      • Luis – Psychiatrist in Los Angeles.
    • Two grandchildren (so far).
    • Deeply values family legacy and continuity, having rebuilt the stability lost through emigration.
  • Philosophy & Growth:
    • Credits hardship and immigration for building resilience and gratitude.
    • Life theme: “Rebuild what was lost” — restoring family legacy and multi-generational progress.
    • Found purpose in mentorship and developing others, guiding young engineers at Shell, some of whom rose to executive ranks.
    • Believes success is measured by helping others reach their potential.
  • Community Involvement (Post-Retirement):
    • Serves as Board Chair for Puentes New Orleans, supporting Hispanic youth in education and career development.
    • Advocates for mentorship, awareness of available resources, and building character through service.
    • Creates personal “life projects” such as family photo books and recorded life stories for his children and grandchildren.
  • Core Values & Reflections:
    • Gratitude, reflection, education, family, and giving back.
    • Advises youth to be self-aware, seek mentors, and make deliberate career choices.
    • Finds joy in legacy-building and giving back to the community that once helped him.
  • Legacy Vision:
    • Views his life as “mission accomplished” — rebuilt family stability, achieved professional excellence, and established a foundation for future generations.
    • Hopes to see a future “Vallejo at Princeton” as a symbolic continuation of his family’s pursuit of excellence.